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Moralistic Therapeutic Deism or Christian?
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So if the Christian church is “advertising” the gospel is it the best approach to push the “buying point” as saying a prayer of repentance and belief, and then follow that up with the “now you are in the family of God” proof-texting? Trust me, this is an honest question and not a leading question. And I don’t want to make it “hard” to believe in Christ. And as Mike said on Wednesday, I do not see any evidence in scripture that there is anything other than Christ’s death and resurrection which accomplishes salvation, which is attained by faith, and that there is not some separate step of “Lordship” that goes after salvation, etc. But I, along with scores of others, have led many in the process and have often ended with something like:

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand.” -John 10.27-29

or, “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God” -Romans 8.16

Not only have I led people in this, I have trained hundreds of teens and adults to share their faith in this way.

Then I read a very well done study and well written synopsis of the culture of Christianity in American teenagers by Christian Smith and Melina Lundquist Denton, titled . Through their study they write a strikingly precise summation of what I have observed in the general culture of teens and what I think can be applied to age groups much older and still be on target with reality:

“in the ecology of American adolescents’ lives, religion clearly operates in a social-structurally weak position, competing for time, energy, and attention and often losing against other, more dominant demands and commitments, particularly school, sports, television, and other electronic media.” (p161)
“…we suggest that the defacto dominant religion among contemporary U.S. teenagers is what we might well call ‘Moralistic Therapeutic Deism.’ The creed of this religion…sounds something like this:

  1. A God exists who created and orders the world and watches over human life on earth.
  2. God wants people to be good, nice, and fair to each other, as taught in the Bible and by most world religions.
  3. The central goal of life is to be happy and to feel good about onesself.
  4. God does not need to be particularly involved in one’s life except when God is needed to resolve a problem.
  5. Good people go to heaven when they die.
    (p162-163)

How is the good news of Jesus Christ and the kingdom of God ending up with a result like this!? I know there are various contributors, some of which I have already talked about in the faith-science dichotomy and truth approach. But a large contributor is our focus on a one-time decision prayer, life insurance policy type salvation experience. If you are a Christian today and someone asks you how you know or why you are a Christian, please don’t say “because when I was 5 (or 25) I prayed a prayer…” or if you do say something like that it is only the first half of the first sentence which then goes on to talk about how the living Spirit of God is at work in your life yesterday and TODAY. (Oh, and doubts are fine! I think that is one of the greatest things about faith, doubts can be and should be aired out and wrestled with)

I don’t find a story in the Bible where a person is given assurance of their salvation based on a prayer they prayed in the past. I find reminders of individuals belief of the belief of a community of people, but no assurance. In fact when these reminders of belief are given it is often followed up with the telling of how they are still being “faithful” or “fruitful” in their belief. Additionally, Paul urges us to live, “as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him.” (Colossians 2.6) It seems that the greater biblical support refers to a continual faith-living, believing, or fruitful life as assurance of our salvation.

So I don’t think it is wrong to encourage that one-time prayer of salvation, and the followup “family of God” / “Now you’re ‘in’” encouragement, I just think it is incomplete. But I want to be careful, because I don’t think the “completeness” of it is to then say, “now you need to obey the law…” which will tend to be a legalistic earn your salvation approach. I do think we need to follow that up with something like, “now, daily, allow this faith to be worked into every area of your being, to the very core of yourself. You will find new ways that your faith applies to your life and community. You will be continually transformed and you must allow the Spirit of God in you to change you and display God’s character through you.”

Finally, I leave you with an approach that we take with our children (which I learned in part through some great conversations with a great reformed theology friend and is really pretty basic to scripture teaching) As our children are growing up we have treated, talked with, taught them that they are part of a believing community, the Church. As they are growing up they can choose to believe (accept) or reject that. I recognize that a child doesn’t express much independent faith when they are young and therefore are heavily influenced by our belief (this is actually the beauty of family as God designed). As each one has expressed faith in Jesus Christ for salvation we celebrated! They were born again! (The kind of beginning that John commented about yesterday) But we then watch and continually look for opportunities to encourage them to affirm their faith and express belief in new ways. Two of ours have expressed enough independent faith for us to encourage them to be baptized. As the grow and in these reaffirmations they will mature in their faith and our prayer is they will grow beyond Mom and Dad’s faith holding them up to understand the even greater cloud of those who have gone before, test their doubts, strengthen their faith and bring others along with them. We certainly share with them about a future of eternity in God’s full presence, but we more often talk about what it means for them to have faith today and how that can change their character (at Tommy commented earlier this evening) and make a difference in the community in which God has put them.

Well, a much longer conclusion that I intended, and a little different ending point than I set out toward 10 days ago. I still would like to come back to the faith-science discussion as I have many more thoughts related to that; but it will wait for another day (probably not tomorrow :-) )

Honest Words from a Pastor’s Wife – Christmas on a Sunday
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This year Christmas came on a Sunday, which has not happened since 2005.  If I am going to be completely honest I was not excited about this occurrence.  Although I love going to church I do not enjoy getting this family of 6 ready for church.  If we could just go in our PJs that would be glorious, although totally distracting and strange to say the least!  When we are home for Christmas it is a pajama kinda day.  Last year I remember thinking how strange it was to be sitting down to Christmas dinner served on our fine china along side family heirloom silver all the while wearing PJs!

My thoughts about this started before Thanksgiving.  Our church has a Thanksgiving Day service, Brian was there.  I was not too excited about that one either.

Then came Christmas.

Brian was to be at both the Christmas Eve service and the Christmas day service, there would be no getting around that unless we left town and he took a vacation day.

A week before Christmas, I got a text message from the husband/pastor/creative ministries guy that informs me my two oldest children will be singing in both the Christmas Eve service and the Christmas Day service.  Well it looks like I am loosing this one!  All I could think was, this must be what the Lord wants them to do.  It is not so much about me.

It is important to always be checking my heart and listening for what God might say in every life situation…
Speaking to my Mom around Thanksgiving gave me the first viewpoint/heart change that was needed.  My Mom was in a new town away from family and was informing me how neat it was to go to a church service on Thanksgiving Day.  My heart that had been set on, “can’t we just be a family on Thanksgiving and Christmas and hang out at our house” began to change as I realized the blessing a service can be to others.  Others who do not have family, others who have guests in town who only go to church on holidays, others who need the encouraging words of Scripture in song and word all are encouraged by a Thanksgiving or Christmas service.  In reality I am encouraged as well, but that was not my concern at the time.  I just wanted my loves home in their PJs.

The girls were delighted to find out they would be singing in the Christmas services, I believe there were even screams of joy when the news was told.  However, on Christmas morning when it was time to put the newly unwrapped presents down and dress for church the delight wore off a bit.  I had to give the pep talks while placing the curlers in their golden hair.  “You have the opportunity to bring joy to others by singing and encouraging their hearts.  You never know who will be in the audience.  Someone may really need the encouragement this service will bring.”  I was speaking to myself as well as to my girls.  The Lord always teaches me as I try to teach them :)

They went, they sang, they came back all smiles!  They ended up with their picture on the front page of the newspaper, singing so sweet.  I received word from several who went to the services how encouraged they were by the service and the girls’ involvement.  The Lord knows what He is doing!

To finish it all off they were back in their PJs with in 30 minutes of coming home, back to their new unwrapped gifts!  Christmas dinner was still china, crystal, silver and PJs!

Merry CHRISTmas Tweets
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Focusing my mind on the gift of Christ this Christmas brought me to look for verses that show the blessings we have in and through Him.  The following are the verses I tweeted throughout last week.  Here is my list so far:

When we were dead in our trespasses God made us alive in Christ. Ephesians 2:5

In Christ we have obtained an inheritance.  Ephesians 1:11

In Christ we were chosen before the foundation of the world.  Ephesians 1:4

In Christ we are blessed with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places. Ephesians 1:3

In Christ you who were once far off have been brought near.  Ephesians 2:13

Because of Christ, if we confess our sins he is faithful to forgive. I John 1:9

In Christ we receive grace & apostleship for the sake of his name among the nations. Romans 1:5

The righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. Romans 3:22

In Christ we are filled with the fruit of righteousness.  Philippians 1:11

I can be found in Christ, having a righteousness that comes through faith in him.  Philippians 3:9

Merry CHRISTmas!

Merry CHRISTmas!
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It is the time of giving and receiving!  If you are like me in your Christmas history you have a few gifts you were given that at the time seemed nice, maybe even exciting, but it was not until years later that you discovered just how wonderful they really were.  One of mine is a serving tray my Grandmother gave me.  I thought it was nice and was glad to receive it, but I was not too sure how much it would actually get used.  Several years later I consider this tray invaluable as I use it repeatedly for different things.

At Christmas time we often focus our thoughts on the wonder of Jesus’ birth, and rightly so!  However, I think the longer He lived here on earth and the longer we walk in our devotion to Him the greatness of His gift is realized even more.  I will be tweeting a series of verses with the hash tag #MerryCHRISTmas to focus my thoughts on the greatness of the gift of Jesus that developed after His birth.  Jesus life, death and resurrections are what truly makes Christmas Merry and CHRISTmas!

If you would like to follow along on twitter, find me at  MandaRayel.  If you are a Facebook friend I will be posting them there as well.

May we see the gift of CHRIST in all it’s value!

Moore Muffin Tin Lunch
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One of the things I love about reading blogs is that I get inspired to try new things, even simple things!  Last week while checking $5 Dinners I found this inspiration and another site to follow, Muffin Tin Mom.

I don’t know what it is about cute little spaces filled in fun ways, but I am all about it.  Last year we purchased Laptop Lunch boxes, they are bento boxes.  Both the kids and myself love filling them and using them.  I was not sure if the kids would like this muffin tin lunch idea, it seemed so close to a bento boxes we already have.  I soon discovered they loved it!  The talk around the island went something like this:

“When lunch looks cute it tastes better.” Emma

“This looks like a bunny lunch Mom!” Owen

“Thank you, Mom…for muffin lunch!” Isabelle.

We don’t even have cute muffin tins, and it still worked :)   Give it a try….happy munching!!

Mandy’s Monday – Major Milestone in the Moore Family…The End of an Era!
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The time has come!  Today marks the end of over ten years that a precious piece of furniture has lived in my house.

I can remember back to 1999 when Brian and I were dedicatedly choosing this item, ordering it, putting it together and anxiously awaiting the moment it would be filled.  I remember bringing Addie home from the hospital and her first night with us when we got NO sleep as she lay in a cradle in our room.  Brian’s mom said to us the next morning “I think she needs to be in her own room”, and so this precious furniture was filled for the first time.  My heart skipped a beat the day we moved Addie to a big girl bed @ 18 months because Emma was coming to join us soon, I even cried.  Then it came time to move Emma, Isabelle was on her way.  Isabelle got to stay a little longer than the first two, but she as well had to move out…Owen was coming!  Three years after Owen’s arrival and ten years after 2000 the day has come, the crib is coming down.

I am not going to hide the fact that I stood in the hallway in tears bidding farewell to this dear furniture that represents for us a huge milestone and time of change.  My babies are grown and a new era is on the move!  I am thankful for my friend Kelly, whose words on FB this morning brought great encouragement and direction “there are wonderful days ahead”.  How true this is!!

I say farewell to our wonderful crib and the years of having a baby in our home.  I am not positive what the Lord has in store for us, but for now the chapter is closing and a new page is turning.  A new page filled with bunk beds, soccer games, summer camp, pool memberships, late night talks, personalized ipod mixes, and much more is now living in my home.  WELCOME!  May I soak it in and enjoy every moment before I walk our children to their dorm room and once again find myself crying in the hallway!

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