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Mandy’s Monday – Don’t Forget the Marshmallows! (Making December Count Idea #2)
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Welcome back!  How was your first week of December?  I hope it went well and that in the craziness you were able to snatch a few moments with your loved ones to focus all of your hearts on the true meaning of Christmas.

Our family started the reading plan I referred to last week.  We quickly learned it is best to take a look at the additional content available to understand why the particular reading is chosen for that day.  It is not a chronological reading, so knowing the main point before reading it out loud to children is helpful (today it was about giving is better than receiving).  Our family has enjoyed passing the iPhone around the breakfast table having different people read each day.  We have had a few bumps in the road, but we have kept at it and the older girls as well as Brian and I are enjoying it.  My two younger children, ages 6 & 3, are not getting as much from our reading time.  If you have given it a try, keep going!  If you want to jump on board start today!

Now it is time to give you a second idea.  I will remind you that my purpose is to give you an idea of a simple activity that does not take much time or prep and you most likely do not have to go buy anything; yet it will provide a special family moment that you can soak up as much as possible!  This week have all the family members get in their pajamas then gather the following items:  Christmas story books, hot chocolate and don’t forget the marshmallows.  Not too difficult, but a set aside time and an excited attitude from Mom and Dad can turn this into a fun family moment.  Last year this happened spur of the moment and if I remember right was really the kids idea.  I grabbed the camera and captured the moment :)

A little discussion on Christmas story books might be needed here.  I love books!  I love to read!!  You probably already know this about me.  Therefore, it is no surprise that I have a collection of  Christmas story books.  I try to pick up one or two each year.  We leave them out for December, but the rest of the year I have them tucked away in the basement.  It is always fun to see the kids spend time just pouring over them each year when I bring them out!  If you do not have a collection I would encourage you to start one, however the library is a great resource.  Check your local public library as well as your church library.  If your church does not have a library there is a chance a near by church does and would allow you to check out from them.

I have one Christmas story book that is my all time favorite!  I would HIGHLY recommended getting a copy of One Wintry Night by Ruth Bell Graham.  Amazon says it is temporarily out of stock, I am hoping that does not mean it is out of print.  Graham lays out the story of Christmas starting in…Genesis!  This book is actually a condensed story of the Bible itself.  I just love it!  My kids and I have read through this since they were really little, it is a family favorite!

So send the kids to get their PJs on, grab some hot chocolate and a stack of Christmas story books and don’t forget the marshmallows!  Enjoy your family and Christmas this week!

Making December Count – Personally and as a Family
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Happy December 1st!

If you have been holding off on declaring it Christmas time, there is no more waiting allowed!  It is December, time to decorate the house, buy some gifts, plan for parties and events, and get STRESSED OUT with all you wish you could do but can’t… Wait, did I just write that?  I did!  Let’s just be honest, many of us get stressed about the holidays and one of the reasons is because we see it as yet another time we will fail at having life all together and running smoothly like we assume every one elses lives run.  Let me just dismiss the myth, no one has it all together…no one!  Not even the mom you know who looks like she has got it all under control.  She doesn’t!

I love quick simple ideas that I can put into practice with my family.  Sometimes I have time to embellish them, sometimes I don’t; but I love getting ideas.  I thought I would share a few with you this December.  A few ideas that do not take a lot of time or prep, but just might provide a wonderful Christmas family moment!  I will post a new idea each Monday in December, and we will all see if we can put them into practice this holiday season.

The first idea comes from YouVersion, a Bible reading website where you can find all different Bible reading plans.  After signing in and getting a user name you can access tons of reading plans.  I found a December plan called “Rediscovering Christmas” that lays out a plan for December 1- 25 that takes you through the Christmas story.   If you have an iPhone grab the free App, select the plan and read it at the breakfast table with your kids each morning.  If the breakfast table does not work out, hand the phone to one of your kids and ask them to read it out loud in the car.  No iPhone, no problem…stop by the website during the day and grab the reference, place a Bible on the dinner table and ask one of the kids to read each evening.  Is your home computer located in the same room as your fireplace, ours is :) , gather everyone around a warm fire in the fireplace, hit the website each night find out the reference then go back to the home page and select the option for the audio drama and listen to the passage being read.  The options are endless.  Don’t try to make it big and glorious, just try to make it happen!  There is time for embellishing once it is happening!  Ideal this plan starts today, so sign up and start reading :)

Mandy’s Monday next week will feature idea #2.  These are simple and doable ideas that I hope you and your family can put into practice with the result of turning your hearts toward Christ this Christmas with out getting stressed.

Merry Christmas!

Tuesday’s Tunes – A Little Longer
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Years ago one of the students in our ministry gave my friend Greg Despres a CD with a song sung by Jenn Johnson which was so impacting that he shared it in one of his messages.  Upon hearing it I immediately went to purchase it because of how deeply it struck my heart.  This song has continued to impact my life so much that at times I open iTunes, select the song, select the repeat 1 song option, and press play.  I sit and pray, sometimes through tears because of the message of the song.  This past summer some of our students found this video and played it during an all night prayer/worship gathering.  Watch below and see if it might strike your heart in a deep way:

Here is the part of the song that hits me the hardest:
“Then hear you saying to me
Listen, you don’t have to do a thing
Just simply be with me
and let those things go
‘Cause they can wait another minute”

It is so easy to get caught up in ministry or any christian service with a “do” attitude (which can turn in to a “do-do” attitude) rather than a “be” attitude.  Take a moment today and just be with your creator God, listen, relish in God’s love, and then stay there a little longer…those other things can wait another minute.

This Sunday morning in Calvary Church’s Sr High Insight this song fits so perfectly into our current series and will be featured…you don’t want to miss the way in which this will be creatively featured!

the god of Christmas
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The subtle, yet poignant message in this commercial screamed out at me this morning while watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade with the family.  Watch below and see if you can hear what I hear:

Did you see it…not only have we overtaken the real reason for the Christmas celebration, Christ the eternal, the Messiah taking on humanity for the salvation of the world, but we have further replaced God with today’s image of commercialism, Santa Claus!  Coca-cola has created Santa as a god-like figure who controls the events of humanity through his snow globes, to bring happiness to all (and a Coke and a smile).  I realize that this is a mythical and flawed view of how God works, but it subtly indoctrinates our society and bumps God the Father and the Son out of the Christmas celebration.  Maybe we should start calling the holiday season Santamas?  Merry Santamas to all…yikes!

Those of us who know the reality of God in flesh appearing need to keep Christ as the center of Christmas, help our children discern and understand the lies of society around, and celebrate that true joy and life only known through the Christ of CHRISTmas.

I Love Coke…but this ad campaign doesn’t bring happiness or a smile to my face.

Tuesday’s Tunes
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One of the things that has been very powerful in my life through the years is music.  I think that is mostly universal for people, and we all resonate with certain types of music.  I love all types of music, but the words are important to the experience that I have as well as they style of music.

So here is a place that I want to share some of the songs that have impacted me through the years and currently.

This summer we loaded the family up in the suburban to take our long Oklahoma/Texas/Georgia tour, as we were leaving town we stopped at our traditional first stop, Starbucks!  Mandy went in to get the drinks and I stayed back with the kids…then this song struck me at the heart

I bought it on my iPhone right there while waiting on Mandy, and it quickly became one of those “our song” types of songs between Mandy and I.  His advice for making it in marriage is right on!  We could use this stuff in the premarital counseling we’ve done…

“Be a best friend,
tell the truth,
overuse ‘I love you’
go to work, do your best
don’t outsmart your common sense,
never let your prayin’ knees get lazy,
and love like CRAAAZY!”

“Always treat your woman like a lady,
never get to old to call her baby,
never let your prayin’ knees get lazy,
and love like CRAAAAZY!”

Now, That’ll Preach!
May the Lord grant us 58+ years together.

Mandy’s Monday – Giving Thanks!
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It is Monday morning the week of Thanksgiving, what wonderful memories I have of Thanksgivings from my past.

The majority of Thanksgivings I had growing up were spent at my Grandparents home in South Texas.  The day was always filled with family fun.  My Dad always made the fruit salad.  My Grandmother slaved away in the kitchen over the turkey, dressing and fresh home grow green beans.  When we awoke Thanksgiving morning there was usually some turkey story that happened in the wee hours of the morning as my Grandmother and other helpers put the bird in the oven.  To know my family is to know that we are story tellers, I come by it naturally!  My Mom is one of the best story tellers around, although the stories always grow a little bit with each new telling!

I was blessed to know three of Great Grandparents, and even one of my Great Great Grandparents, but that is a story for another time.  Every holiday my Great Grandfather would do the same thing.  He would walk up to me as I sat on the stool pulled up to the kitchen counter breathing in the sights and sounds of my family preparing the meal with bursts of laughter; and he would say “Mandy, do you think you can count the money I have in my wallet?”  “Sure, Great Granddad I can!”  Then he would pull out a wad of cash and hand it over to me.  I would count it out carefully usually arriving at some amount around fifty dollars.  “There is $52 here!” I would say with a smile and anticipation, and every year it was the same thing “Well here you go Mandy”…and he would hand me one dollar bill!  Even though it was only a dollar, I loved him for it!

I must say the best part of Thanksgiving was always my Grandmothers cornbread dressing!!  I could eat two plates full and if I didn’t watch out my cousin Brandon would steal it all!  No one makes dressing like my Grandmother, even though many, including myself, have tried repeatedly.  Her dressing may well be the best food I have ever eaten, partly because it tastes great but mostly because my Grandma made it and that is enough for me.

These days I have my own family and we have done many different things on Thanksgiving.  Driving across the country has become one of our family traditions.  There is nothing like the kids watching Sound of Music in the back while Brian and I listen to one of John Eldrige’s books on CD.  We have had some great conversations on those long rides, as well as some horrible “we must be crazy to do this” moments when all the kids are falling apart and Brian and I are worn out!  However, we have always made it to our destination and once there get to enjoy time with family members we don’t see enough of.

The first year we could not go home we decided to head to New York to see the Macy’s Day parade.  We cooked the turkey early and I made turkey sandwiches to take along.  It was just Addie and Emma those days and seeing the parade was wonderful.  Brian had Addie in a back pack carrier, I had Emma in a front carrier and there we stood on a sidewalk in New York city watching the parade go by.  It was so great we did it another year as well, adding Brian’s Aunt Kathy into the mix.

I am thankful for the wonderful Thanksgiving memories the Lord has blessed me with!  I did not grow up with long talks at the table about what everyone was thankful for, that just was not my families way of doing things.  But I grew up with Thanksgiving being about being together…family…one of the things I am most thankful for.  So even though the only people I will be with on Thanksgiving day this year who I am related to will be my imidiate family, I will be thanking the Lord for wonderful Thanksgiving pasts and the amazing family I have who live in my home and those who live dotted across the country.

May the Lord bless your Thanksgiving Day and fill your heart with gratitude for the great things He has done!

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