Mandy’s Monday - God’s Rule in Relationships

Posted on April 14, 2008 by mandy.
Categories: Mandy's Mondays, biblical studies.

I have been so encouraged and challenged while working through Colossians in Study & Share this semester! It has always been Brian’s favorite book of the Bible and so each time I spend time in it I feel like I am getting to know him better as well :)

Last week I had the privilege of teaching Study & Share on the passage Colossians 3:18-4:1. Now if you are familiar with the book you may realize immediately that this is the passage that lists several relationship “rules” - wives submit to your husbands, husbands love your wives, children obey your parents… Not an easy passage to cover in my mind, and sometimes not a popular one either. But I found my time there to be a real blessing!

In Colossians 1 Paul greets the Colossian church and then begins to tell them how amazing Jesus is! (He is the first born from the dead, He is preeminent and in Him all the fullness of diety dwells!!) Colossians 2 has that amazing passage on Christ’s work at Easter bringing us from death to life. (You who were dead in your trespasses…God made alive, canceling the record of debt, nailing it to the cross, setting it aside!)  With Colossians 3 Paul explains how we are to live a life that is alive in Christ.  If you are like me, even though you are alive in Christ there are times when we choose to live in the coffin. Paul tells us how to get out! (Put to death - slander, immorality, anger… put on - compassion, kindness, humility…) AND THEN comes the instructions for our personal relationships in the home.  The Lord Jesus wants to affect every area of our lives, so that we might be fully alive in Christ!

Following the Lord’s instructions in our relationships, allowing Him to rule in our relationships is really choosing to trust Him and not ourselves.  When we realize our ultimate faith and trust are in the Lord, it puts our earthly relationships into perspective.

I am not going to share everything I was encouraged by, I will save that for the pod cast.  So check back if you would like to listen :)

If you have not done it recently, read all the way through Colossians in one sitting and soak it in!  Seeing it in its entirety is GREAT!

Transitions

Posted on by brian.
Categories: Family Life, Student Ministry, leadership, ministry.

horiz_home_ryan_dark_2.jpgWhen I typed that title I thought of the lenses that change tinting according to the sunlight exposure. I’m not really going to write about those lenses except to note that they are a reactionary transition as opposed to a proactive transition. They are built to react to the sunlight and offer protection and comfort to those who are wearing them.

So what does that have to do with anything?? Glad you asked!

This is a time of major transitions in and around our lives:

1. Spring is now in full gear around our town, and it is BEAUTIFUL!! I am so thankful for the season changes and the transition times as winter struggles with spring and the beauty that God has built into that time is shown.

df-logo-clear-bkgnd.gif2. Our ministry is moving into a new facility for youth and children. We have been blessed to be able to build a nicely equipped auditorium for student ministry with a cafe, kitchen, lobby, and office facility! What an exciting time this is! During this time we are also re-casting our vision to Drink Deep of Christ and Flow to Others from Campuses to Continents.

 height=3. Our church is in the process or transitioning Senior Pastor leadership. Johnny Miller made it known a few years ago that he is nearing the end in his current role. So we as a church are looking for the healthiest way to keep moving the ministry forward as we evaluate the current strengths and weaknesses and determine the profile of a potential new Senior Pastor. A very important time in the life of a local church body! Thanks for your prayers!

4. Yesterday Greg and Allison Despres made the public announcement that they are transitioning to a new season of life and ministry, moving to South Carolina.  Greg has been leading our student ministry team for almost 9 years and is the one who initiated the contact for Mandy and I to move up here (with just Addie at that time) over 8 years ago.  It has been a great season of our life to work alongside of them and grow deep in friendship.  We have experienced and learned so much together.  And being so far from family they are like our family, coming to the hospital with coffee and dunkin donuts when Isabelle had her first seisure, sharing holiday meals together, helping one another with house projects, borrowing things back and forth, caring for each other’s children when things come up, and COUNTLESS other things!  Our whole family has shed tears on this one (although I think Owen was crying because he hit is head!) and we have more tears to shed as we help them do what needs to be done to move a family.

So with every life transition, there is a bit of healthy reaction and healthy proactive movement.

With the coming of spring, you put away the heavy coats, clean up the wood pile on the porch and start working on the yard again…complete with planting a garden, because you know the fruits will come in the summer!  I can’t wait until I can take a bite of those juicy home-grown tomatoes!

With the moving into a new facility you order the things you need, recruit help to move, re-cast the vision, and look forward to continued fruit to come through expanded ministry opportunities.

With the process of looking for a new Senior pastor, you rejoice in all the fruit that God has given through the ministry and seek God for the direction of the future, realizing that HE is the one who causes growth and will raise up the person to continue the abundance of fruitful ministry in our community and around the world.

And with the transition of the Despres’ we, through the tears, rejoice in what God is doing to expand His Kingdom.  Realizing that He is growing a beautiful garden year after year.  We anxiously work and await the Spirit of God to bring a bumper-crop of fruit both in the Despres family in South Carolina and in the ministry of Calvary Church Student Ministry as we continue the vision, and continue building the ministry team for the future.  The unknown sometimes causes us to be fearful, but as we follow God, the one who knows all things, we can cast fear of circumstances aside and pursue Him with a greater passion, knowing that He gives and takes away, but He always provides.  We worship Him in this transition!

Thanks for your prayers as we all TOGETHER build the Kingdom of God, being the life of Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit both locally and globally!!

Cousin Camp - Week 1

Posted on April 13, 2008 by mandy.
Categories: Family Life.

main.jpegIn my house you will currently find seven sleeping children ages 14 months, 23 months, 4, 4, almost 4, 6 and 8!! We have just completed week one of what we are calling Cousin Camp 2008, and there is one more week to go. It has been both wonderful and exhausting to have our extra family members here! I put up a few pictures on our gallery of the things that went on here in week one. We hope to enjoy more fun times in week two before Grandma arrives to take the Williamsons back home.

A few observations:main-1.jpeg

- It takes a long time to get everone in the car!

- I get some crazy looks when I am out and about with 6 or 7 of them!

- The most exhausting moment of the day is dinner time!!

- At 8:30 on Sat. morning Brian and I were sitting down to a pancake breakfast after all 7 had finished theirs - this is a result of little ones waking at 6 something each morning!! Even on SATURDAY!

Week two should be fun!

Mandy’s Monday (on Wed.) - I Just Wanna Celebrate! Part 2

Posted on April 9, 2008 by mandy.
Categories: Mandy's Mondays, biblical studies.

If you have not seen the comment my Aunt left on Part 1 of this post, you ought to go give it a read. I found it inspiring!

So here are the descriptions I found in Colossians that address what happens to the believer through and at Easter:

(insights taken from Colossians 1:13-14; 19-22; 27; 2:13-15)

Our Condition Before:

Domain of darkness

Alienate

Hostile in mind

Doing evil deeds

Dead in trespasses

Uncircumcision of flesh

Record stood against me

Legal demands

What God did at Easter Through Jesus Christ:

Delivered us

Transferred us

Forgiven us

Reconciled us

Made peace by the blood of the cross

Presented us

Made known

In us

Canceled our debt

Set it aside

Nailed it to the cross

Disarmed the ruler & authorities

Put them to shame

Triumphed over them

Our Condition After:

Kingdom of his beloved Son

Redemption

Forgiveness of sin

Reconciled

Holy

Blameless

Above reproach

Hope of glory

Alive

Trespasses forgiven

Canceling record of debt

AMEN!! I JUST WANT TO CELEBRATE!

Mandy’s Monday (I know it is not Monday - so lets just pretend) - I Just Want to Celebrate! Part 1

Posted on April 1, 2008 by mandy.
Categories: Mandy's Mondays, biblical studies.

I am aware that Easter is done and gone, but I have to revisit it in this blog. I had wanted to share these things before now and life just got in the way - you know how it is!

For Easter my friend Shannon Diller put together an Easter mix and passed it out. I just love Shannon’s musical mixes. The girls and I really enjoyed his Christmas two cd mix as well! So on the Easter mix is the song “I Just Want to Celebrate” and it has become my theme song these few weeks. I play it two or three times in the morning while dropping my kids off at school, to set the tone for the day and get everyone pumped (of course my girls tease me for always playing the same song!)

What do I have to celebrate - well let me tell ya :)

Leading up to Easter I was preparing to teach at Study & Share a review lesson on Colossians 2:6-23. When I realized that I would be teaching the week of Easter I was really excited! Colossians may not be the normal place you would turn to read and study on the week of Easter but oh it fits beautifully!! We can go to Matthew, Mark, Luke and John and read about what happened to Jesus at Easter, but when we go to Colossians 2 we discover what happened to us at Easter. If you want to look at it personally here is what I sugest you do:

Read through the following verses Colossians 1:13-14; 1:19-22; 1:27; 2:13-15

Do so THREE times making a list of:

1st Descriptions of us before placing our faith in Jesus

2nd Descriptions of what Jesus and God did at Easter

3rd Descriptions of us after Easter and placing our faith in Jesus

Then compare the before and after!! Wow now that is something to CELEBRATE!!

At Easter I went from being dead in sin to alive in Christ! I just want to CELEBRATE another day of living!!!

Next week I will share the descriptions I found in Colossians, but I will wait in case you would like to look at it on your own first.

Side note - here is another reason I am celebrating these days - Yesterday was OPENING DAY in baseball - WOO HOO!! Now that does not compare with Colossians but it sure is a lot of fun! - Go RANGERS!! (I even got to hear my favorite radio commercial while listening to the game.)